Well don't lump us all in by saying PACAF, I'm part of PACAF too =P But seriously, you didn't elaborate much my friend. If your wife stole something - or walked out with a candy bar forgetting to pay for it by accident, whatever - then I guess I'm sorry on behalf of AAFES that the military decided a LONG time ago that you are responsible for the actions of your wife and children on the base? From what I understand at my BX anyway, before prosecution it has to be proven beyond a doubt that theft was committed, and even then, the MPs have to decide whether or not to take action.